Look into yourself & try to self motivate yourself
Tell them to go take a hike
Leave him & say your done with him
Leave her gifts
I would change how I respond to situations
Drink hot tea with honey
Its could changing from country to country
Long is the way to go
Take a closer look at your kids. History repeats itself, short hair is everywhere with them.
short / bald.
Long hair fades and etc
Long hair, with beard.